Today is Valentine’s Day.. “Write an article stating the meaning and importance of the day, Hare” I said to myself…

Actually I had written my article for this week, then when I looked at the date and saw that February 14th fell on Saturday, assuming that those who value this day would be in the majority, I wrote my article again.

In the early times of their relationships, people pay excessive attention to such days. They see the degree of their love for each other, based on anniversaries and special days. For example, forgetting special days is interpreted as lack of love or its scarcity.

Or the gift not being expensive gives rise to comments that there’s not enough love.

I think all comments are tragic and funny. You know what? Those who show excessive interest in special days more than necessary and enter into expectation, in my opinion, it’s because they don’t trust their relationship and the person they’re in a relationship with…

A relationship without trust goes into testing on special days. How simple, right Dear Readers?

At hand there’s zero and come on now show yourself, show your love on Valentine’s Day…

At hand there’s only a depleted relationship, at hand there are only two tired and worn out people…The poor relationship that’s barely walking also enters the revival race on these days with oomph.

That’s why I say don’t pay more attention to special days than necessary, every day is actually special for a person who loves each other. Don’t forget, don’t let them forget that the person who exists in every day of our lives, which is a day that won’t be lived again, is special.

Trust-based relationships don’t get interrupted or go into testing on special days.

Relationships not based on trust are already a chaos in themselves…

Sometimes we find ourselves in relationships where we’re not safe. Such a thing is like getting soaked in a sudden rain or suddenly having the chair you’re sitting on break…

Should you be sad about the time that passed, should you regret the effort and labor you spent, you don’t know which one to be sad about. You just withdraw more and more into yourself every day. Actually you act as if everything is normal but inside you storms and hurricanes are raging. You wait for someone to come out and ask what’s wrong, but you act as if everything is fine so much that the thought of asking such a question doesn’t even occur to anyone.

That’s why sensible people don’t pay attention to special days. They don’t even care…They know that special days have no value. Because they’ve been hurt the most on special days, because their tears have become floods the most on special days…

For people who love from the heart and soul, there are no special days.