There are times when I would drown in murky waters if it weren’t for my loved ones…

I’m very lucky in that regard. I have loved ones who support me in every matter, who keep their trust in me. I know their value well.

In recent weeks I was supposed to write about different topics, but for some reason I kept writing on similar topics. I’m sorry if I bored you. I thought I was going in circles, but apparently I needed to read what I wrote…

You know, sometimes we write to pull ourselves together, sometimes we write to understand events, and sometimes we write to empty ourselves. All three purposes had a share in what I wrote. And I think my loved ones who read them understood this well.

Our lives are actually sometimes like being in murky waters. We sometimes can’t see ahead and we get confused in that moment. When we panic we tend to drown even more. And that’s exactly when we should stay calm, look at the situation objectively and make the right decision.

But is this always possible? Of course not. We’re human and we have feelings. When we’re disappointed, we get upset, hurt. And while dealing with all these, our minds can’t function properly. This is also one of the obstacles in front of making the right decision. That’s why we shouldn’t make hasty decisions in such situations. We should wait for our emotions to settle. Just like we wait for murky water to settle and clear…

I know these are such obvious things but we all know and experience that doing them is not always so easy…

The moment will pass, calm will come. Waters will clear. The important thing is to be aware of this and wait for that moment. And in the meantime, our greatest support is our loved ones.

Be well…