While reading an article recently, it caught my attention, regarding the moods of people in relationships…

Actually, to tell the truth, after thinking a little about the reasons, I understood once again that this is a topic that can vary according to each individual’s structure.

When some people value someone, they may exhibit avoidance and distancing behavior exactly at that point.

This is related to fear.

They probably move away because of the fear that their core will be seen or that their weaknesses will be revealed.

It’s related to the person’s own inner world. They’re trying to move away from the bond they created with the other side because they’re essentially not at peace with themselves.

And during this moving away, they hurt the other side. They cause them to think and worry about things they didn’t do.

Actually, everything that’s lived is for us. We shouldn’t hide what we feel.

I value you, I love you, but I’m afraid to bond with you. How difficult is it to say this?

But unfortunately, people choose to cover these things by exhibiting strange and disconnected behaviors.

Instead of facing it and saying it, they move away without saying anything, sometimes by breaking heart.

I think the best thing is to look into each other’s eyes and say the truth clearly. Even if it’s painful…

Have a nice weekend…